I really wonder how would you know if your other halves loves you?
Action, words, or the feelings that they gave you is the most important?
How about none of that? Does it mean that they don't love you?
How weird isn't it that human has complicated feelings. They don't know what they feels, ended up wasting a lot of time and energy doing things that they don't know about. Worse of all thing, wasting others time by dragging and dragging which ended up to nothing? If you are lucky, the person might change and ended up giving you the happiest time you will never forget. That actually happen to one of my friend. It really do. He gave her one complicated year of feeling confused, losing out, but ended up, they are so happy together now.
So can you tell me, how would you judge if the person loves you?
Is it the feelings of being loved? action that they showed? or the words that they speak? or is there any other alternatives?
Hope that I get some reply to make the judgment with my friends. Thank You!
~Cathy C.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
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is true that sometime v need some action to show some1 we love...if just by using word, i can tell whole world i love them..;)
dearie, not emo are u? *hugs* hmm.. i can tell that a person loves me by the things he/she does for me or is willing to do for me.
not just that, just the little gestures, affection & the little extra mile he/she expresses when we are together does play a huge part too.
love u babe :)
jackie : so does that mean, action is very important?
jess : shh..hehe..erm...I don't know, I think mostly everyone thinks like that, but would there be 1 person out of the 100 people think differently? If the person doesn't do all that, would that make the answer, no, he/she doesn't love you?
Actually there is no answer, it is something u have to figure out for urself how u r going to measure it :)
Psychologists now believe that each person is different and they take satisfaction in different things, for example some ppl need audible assurance, they ll ask u questions like honey, do u love me? tell me i m pretty? do u really love me? even when u were sleeping and they woke u up :p ..... some ppl find the assurance in visual, the greeting cards, the smile and look u give them etc, some need touch, holding hands and hugs etc.
Its also important to know what kinda person ur partner is? if u r one kind and he is the other oh we have a problem :p it is important to understand each other, and TALK
another important thing is we often blaim he or she has changed, yes s/he may have, thats what the life is, we change over the time, but the real question is, is s/he the only one who changed?
But then again, everything we say here can be forged, pretended :) feelings r not exact science that u have one answer, its the personal quest u have to live :)
JonyBr : Well said! But why isn't everyone think like that you've just mentioned? When I said people usually think alike, just in the matter of which kinda factors that they can tolerate with when it is regarding to how would you know if the other person loves you. But honestly, if none of that happened? no assurance through communication, given it audible, or visual or not? would that simply means, they don't love you at all? would that be a third option that they might do?
The first this i said was there is actually no answer :)
Its is possible the person loves u so much even when he never showed any sign in any form of communication and it is possible person never loved u although he was just too perfect in expressing :)
Normally what i suggest in relations is, be sincere, not serious. That way u ll always be ready.
Another important thing is to trust, u have to trust ur partner, ...believe me if u ll try to look for something u ll find it even when its not there :)
no matter what. tw will always love u. forever and ever
JonyBr : :( be sincere but not serious? how to be sincere but not serious? normally, we are sincere to be serious isn't it?
" Its is possible the person loves u so much even when he never showed any sign in any form of communication and it is possible person never loved u although he was just too perfect in expressing :) "
- about this, I agree on it 50:50. The first part I don't know how true can it be and the second one, quite true. Because if the person loves you, you usually can feel it right? I mean maybe at least a tiny bit?
anonymous : I wonder who are you. hahaha.
Humans like to make things complicated.....
=) Don't be so complicated can or not chaboh?
Chris : got say also like never say anything. What's chaboh?
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